Monday, January 12, 2009

Do you really care about folks?

This past week Tiffany and I went to a retreat in the Hill Country of Texas. It was a wonderful time of reading, reflecting and refreshing. As we talked about the week, we realized that we now had life-long friends...after just one week. On the way home, we shared stories from the week and realized what an amazing group of people gathered there and lived life together that week.

So, why did I title this post "Do you really care about folks?"...well, because each person at this retreat showed how much they cared by the little things they did. One man used peoples' names in the middle of talking to them, making the conversation personal and intentional. Another guy continued to ask questions (even on the last day) in a genuine effort to get to know each person there. One of our leaders encouraged us by mentioning specific things we said (even days earlier) as he expressed his appreciation for the participation. One woman shared her experiences because she knew it would help those in the room. They cared, but the ways they cared were a part of their normal lives. They care, not just about people at a retreat, but all people.

So, do you really care about folks? How do you let them know? What can you do to let people know you are concerned about them?

Seek to truly care about people. Your life will be richer and the lives of those you meet will be richer.

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